Some people, mostly men, have a hard time expressing their love by saying three simple words.
It’s not that they don’t love you, as they show you in other ways. It’s just that they won’t say it.
But let’s be honest, most women need to hear their man say those three simple words. Women, I’m hear to tell you, there is HOPE! Read on!
Gary Young, the founder of Young Living Essential Oils shared the following story at the 2005 International Grand Convention.
A JOYFUL STORY
“I am going to share with you a story about Joy that will give you a tickle. This is a true story–it really happened.
In 1992 a beautiful lady came to me and said, “Gary, my husband hates the oils. He doesn’t want me working with the oils, he doesn’t want me having anything to do with the oils. He won’t let me use them in the home. I want to use the oils. I just know how much value they are going to have, and I don’t want to be without them. What should I do?”
“I won’t be without my oils. That’s all I’m going to say. What kind of a relationship do you have?” She said, “Well, it hasn’t been that good. We’ve been married 27 years and he has never told me that he loves me.”
I said, “What! You’ve been married 27 years and he has never told you he loves you? Where do you want to go with this?” She said, “I don’t want to divorce him,” and I said, “Why? If he doesn’t love you, why do you want to live with this man?”
“Well, we have children and grandchildren and our religious belief is not conducive for that. I am really sure I don’t want to divorce him because he’s a good man. I think I love him. He’s really a good man, but he just has some weird ways. Is there any of the oils that could help?”
I said, “If he doesn’t like the oils, he doesn’t like them in the home, he doesn’t like to use them–there are options. Try this: men never smell their underwear before they put it on. Just sprinkle a couple of drops on his underwear!” She laughed so hard she nearly passed out and I said, “When he is out of the house diffuse Joy in the house and when you know he is going to come home from the field, then open the windows and doors and air the house out.”
She thought that would get rid of the smell, but I told her – it would get rid of the smell, but it will not get rid of the frequency because the oil will go into the drapes, into the carpet, into the furniture. It will go into everything and permeate everything in the home. It’s not about the smell; it’s about the frequency.
PUTTING JOY TO THE TEST
So she took it literally and she did it. She practiced this for two weeks every day and after two weeks of doing this she had the diffuser running one day and he had gone to the field for the harvest. The machinery had broken down, and he came back to the house early. The door opened, she was ironing and she said, “I just froze when I saw him. I didn’t know what to do!” He walked in and began to sniff, “What’s that smell?” and she said, “It’s just Joy, honey.” She thought for sure he was going to explode.
He said, “Wow! I haven’t smelled that before! That’s really nice.” She was still at the ironing board, and he walked across the floor to her and grabbed her, and held her, and said, “I love you.”
She shared this with me just a few months ago and she said, “Gary, our relationship has been the best it’s been in our lives.” and that couple is serving a mission for their church today. These are things you cannot put a price on–the value and how it worked. So just take a lesson– always check the underwear!
Many other women, with the same problem, have reported giving it a try and experiencing the same type of results. I say… if you’re dealing with this problem its worth giving it a try.
If you know someone who is dealing with this issue share this blog post with them. It sure can’t hurt and could be life-changing for them!
Joy™ is a delightful blend of Bergamot, Ylang Ylang, Geranium, Lemon, Coriander, Tangerine, Jasmine, Roman Chamomile, Palmarosa, and Rose essential oils that harmonize for a sweet, joyful aroma. When diffused, Joy creates a warm, comforting environment and inspires a romantic aromatic atmosphere. Wear Joy as a cologne or perfume to exude an alluring and irresistible fragrance that inspires romance and togetherness.
How To Use
• When the kids or hubby get crabby (or you for that matter), rub it neat on feet or ears.
• Wear it as perfume.
• Try applying to tip of nose, mastoid [bone behind ears], outer ridges of ears, hollow of neck and brain stem.
• Place some drops in drawers (not directly on clothes) to help create a healing space and fill an area with positive energy.
• Place one or two drops directly over the heart and experience its uplifting aroma.
• Joy can be diffused in a room where the energy is low. Also, if you have someone living in the house who is always negative, add a drop or two to their underwear drawer and see if you notice any changes!
• It can be a strong smell. Some people may have to work up to it, so it may not be a good one to start with on first timers. (Use the tip above and place in underwear drawer)
JOY INGREDIENTS:
Bergamot (Citrus aurantium bergamia†), Ylang ylang (Cananga odorata†), Geranium (Pelargonium graveolens†), Lemon (Citrus limon†), Coriander (Coriandrum sativum†), Tangerine (Citrus reticulata†), Jasmine (Jasminum officinale*), Roman chamomile (Anthemis nobilis†), Palmarosa (Cymbopogon martinii†), Rose (Rosa damascena†) †genuine, premium-grade essential oil *absolute
